A friend tries to set me up with his friend and the feedback is that I am apparently too strong/ opinionated/ something along those lines.
And all this time I thought that I was a nice girl, but with a point of view on certain matters.
(WHAT'S WRONG WITH HAVING A POINT OF VIEW?)
And this is not first time!
(Well, in another context actually: I knew I would be rejected for a job because the interviewer said at the end, "Wah. You very opinionated, horr" in a really "tsk tsk" tone of voice....)
Am so sick of this nonsense.
Why is that most (Asian) guys I meet cannot accept a woman who has an opinion? This is really upsetting - because it's not like I'm the "in your face"/ brash/ feminist/ grrl power type anyway... (I don't think so anyway).
Can it be that when they say they value intelligence/ personality/ sense of humour in a woman, what they really mean is HOT BODY?
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